You have finally achieved your goal. This should not be a stretch of the imagination, as it’s a given that you can do it. All the same humour me. So, there you are on stage in front of hundreds of people, accepting your award. As you step up too say a few words, you look over the crowd. Then you see that it is filled with a couple of people you know. No that’s not quite true, The crowd has ALL the people you know. What to say???? And you think to yourself there are two types of people. Each will have a conversation with themselves.
Type A: “I helped him/ her along their way”.
Type B: “I knew deep down that they would make it”.
The thing is that you stop and think. Both types of people were critical in helping you get to where you are now. Those that offered what appeared as no help, were critical in making you stronger, more determined, more resilient.
You clear your throat and say “THANK YOU EVERYONE!” And you mean it. You realize that you need them all equally.
So take a moment, on your journey to say a thank you to everyone you meet. As they have brought you to this point. Remember, you are more powerful than you could ever imagine.
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After reading this post look around you. Appreciate the special people around you.
When you look around you, there are heroes in your life. I have the pleasure of working with one such individual. As a young foreman, he took me under his wing. Over the fifteen or so years working with the man, I discovered that management could; and should be fun. We used to look forward to going to work.
A further example of what a hero is, will be described in this example. Imagine how you would feel if your partner came home from the pub, with a ‘new friend’. The friend was down on their luck and struck in the following trap. You can’t get a job, if you don’t have an address. You can’t get a home, if you don’t have a job.
Over the next few months, he helped get this person a job at our company and worked with the individual to find an apartment.
We all like to think we would be able to help another person who needs it. But who can honestly say that they would actually DO it?
The man that I’m speaking of has just lost a battle that he was fighting after having a heart attack over 14 years ago. I for one am indebted to him for the time that he took with me. He taught me things that you will never find in print. i.e. how to spot a person that will be key to the success of a project in a crowd!
R.I.P. Gerry Dunne
I now try to help as many people as I can achieve their dreams. I don’t know all the answers; but I’ll help you look!
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A wise man without a map will get lost in any country. Where as a fool with a GPS will not!
Seems that more and more people are ‘looking for something…..’. Whether it be a new job, partner, opportunity or whatever. Then a question hit me : Do you know precisely, what this thing looks like”? If you do not know precisely, then how will you know when it is right in front of you?
Take a time as you go through your day to ponder this thought. The clarity that it will give you will act as a map. It will give you a clear destination. From that, you can decide which route you are going to take to get there.
Success is a journey; not a destination.
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To grow into the person they should be.
Thanks for taking the time to read this post.
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This is a little happy message to those who knew him.
Clazzy J Today (September 7th), would have been his birthday. He was a great friend and also an amazing DJ. For years after, if I walked down Acre Lane (South London), or other parts of London, I’d be prepared for him to come bursting out of a shop with endless amounts of energy… Energy for life.
So if you’re reading this remember to say a toast to those hat have fallen asleep. But smile as I do if you weep, you didn’t know him!
R.I.P. Clazzy J (John Edwards). Gone but never forgotten. Happy Birthday mate
If you have lost someone and still hold their memory close, never put off something and say’I’ll do it tomorrow’. They never got today so you owe it to their memory not to waste it!
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This weekend I was in Las Vegas. I know, right, me the guy that doesn’t gamble. I was one of two guys who were the surprise for a good friend’s 50th Birthday. That was amazing but only the first part of the story.
Picture the scene, we’re in a limo and I here a beep…………..beep………….beep. I ask the rest of the people around me but they laugh that it’s the alcohol talking (I don’t really drink either. Don’t ask). as the ride goes on I hear it again……beep. I look around and find a brand new iPhone 5S. I tap on the glass and hand it to the driver. We talk and we realise that it must be from the previous guests. I leave him my phone number and tell him to get it back the them and hand them my card.
For those of you that are wondering why I left my card, read my blog ‘Only in Calgary’. I lost my phone and had it returned to me. But I never really got to say thank you to the guy that found it. So by leaving my phone number, the owner could contact me if they were so inclined.
Two days went by and I had forgotten all about. I fly home and just as I arrive home the phone rings. What happens next was one of the nicest phone calls I have had in a long time. The man at the other end was very emotional. As we agreed, it’s not about the phone. There are memories that he could not replace.
We left the call agreeing that we would both continue to ‘pay it forward’.
Go out there and be the best part of someone’s day! It feels great!!!!!
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Dig Your Well Before You’re Thirsty
I have the honor of your attention for a few minutes. Thank you. What does that mean to you?
- What if you’re an athlete? It could mean ‘work on your stamina, before you are thrown into the big race.
- To a student – Study hard before a test.
For me, I’m taking a course to help me motivate thousands of people. Do I have thousands of people waiting to hear me? Am I ready to lead them? Maybe not. But this is preparation for the crowd that’s coming.
The pen in the picture was presented to me for a two-minute speak I gave. I am in training to help mentor the crowd that’s coming. You know what’s coming; what you’d like to do. Don’t leave it until it’s too late to start. Get your shovel and get busy! I never take for granted that you have read this far. Smile as I am whilst writing this. You have a goal that you NEED to achieve! Get busy; get it done before you need it.
When your opportunity comes, make sure you are ready. As always, I didn’t post this to sit on a server somewhere. Go take it and inspire someone!
A leap of Faith
I have decided to write about this topic, as been thinking about it for a while.
Have toy eve asked a young chile to jump? The child will look at you an decide in a heart beat… OK! In that moment it’s settled. But what happened?
Step one “Jump, I’ve you”!
‘Hmm, they love me’.
J U M P!!
CATCH! SMILES ALL ROUND.
The above took less tham a second. If you notice, all the child will state to themself ‘ok, they love me’. Nothing else. No why! do you mean it? How long will it take? Are you strong enough?
As adults, find yourself a mentor. Someone that is looking out for you. Once you have this person, listen to them! Remember, they are looking out for you. So now, when they ask you to jump there is only one statement (, not question). ‘They have my best interests at heart. Then go for it!
‘Jump and grow your wings on the way down’ – Les Brown.
I’m not saying it will always be plain sailing. But ecen when it’s not….. Your mentor will pick you up, dust you off, and help you assess what went wrong. From this point, the two of you will set a plan to make it next time.
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